JUL.30.2013
“You should never use the word ‘unique’ in your academic
writing,” my PhD advisor warned me. Her reason was that this word had no
meaning, thus it had no place in a scholarly work. I obeyed, but mused about
the unfortunate destiny of a significant word in my daughters’ upbringing.
We don’t need a
definition of the word to remind us that our child is “one of a kind; unlike
anything else.” I safely assume that, like me,
most mothers and fathers (Matilda’s parents excluded) are convinced that
their child is unique.
But I wasn’t alone in
this belief; the elementary school in Texas, in the suburb where we lived in
the early 1990s, cultivated the approach that each child was unique. It did so
mainly through a special program named “Project Charlie,” standing for Chemical
Abuse Resolution Lies in Education.
My daughters did not
speak much about their Charlie experience, but they often came home chanting
"each child is unique and different.”
Reading about “Project Charlie” for this post I realize that
this sentence is indeed one of the main points of the program.
“Project Charlie” is
a drug prevention program for elementary school children. It is a
community-based effort to combat youth experimentation and use of all drugs.
This program promotes the social and emotional growth of elementary school
children by encouraging a positive self-image. It seeks to reduce substance
abuse by improving children's decision-making skills and their ability to
resist peer pressure, their self-esteem and to increase their knowledge of the
harm that drugs can do.
Research conducted in the late 1990s found that compared
with children who did not receive "Project Charlie, "children who did
participate in the program showed significantly lower levels of experimentation
with tobacco and illegal drugs.
It seems that the rationale behind “Project Charlie” is that
empowering young children would make them emotionally strong teenagers who
would be able to face challenges and to resist experimentation with drugs at
the secondary school level. But even if the project did not prove effective
enough in preventing drug abuse, it was still a priceless program. It
encouraged children to believe in themselves. And speaking of price, “Project
Charlie” was an inexpensive program since the school used in-house resources;
the counselor who knew the children taught those classes.
We left the US for
Israel in 1994 when my two daughters were in seventh and sixth grade
respectively. I could not find whatever has become of “Project Charlie,” but I
read that it has spread into Europe.
My advisor was right, “unique” is not an academic word, one
has to show the ways in which something is unique. Still watching Matilda in
London the other night, I remembered something important about this little
girl. Matilda is the embodiment of unique, and Roald Dahl’s book demonstrates
how.
But after all is said and done I feel that we should not
throw away this important word. Sometimes there is no other way of saying that
each child is one of a kind.
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