I once heard the Israeli lyricist Ahud Manor (1941--2005)
say on the radio that with the death of his parents came the sad realization
that from that point onward he had no one to brag to. It was a sincere and
sobering insight. Since in most cases our parents are eager to hear all about
our success, sharing it with them in great detail, is not even considered
bragging. We merely humor our parents, and if unfortunately we don't have any
good news to report, it is our duty to think of something, even the smallest
accomplishment, to brighten their day.
But this happy arrangement
tragically ends once our parents are no longer with us. Unfortunately no
one else in the world (not even our partners, siblings, best friends, or PhD
advisers) is that invested in our success. Those who are close to us at best
tolerate our bragging, but in the rest of the world it is regarded as bad form.
Please keep on reading in my Times Of Israel blog
http://blogs.timesofisrael.com/the-ingenious-invention-of-like-or-the-revival-of-bragging/
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